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    The wedding march of Mendelssohn and the cries of "Bitter!" Family life began. Spouses really want their union to be strong and they live in peace and happiness. But day after day passes, a lot changes in the relationship. How do you know if your marriage is happy or cracked? Take the proposed test and see the results.

    Test questions:

    1. Do you often get in the mood at home?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    2. Any little thing can cause a family quarrel?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    3. Do you feel lonely at not the best moment of your life?

    Yes - 0 points

    no - 1 point.

    4. Do you prefer to relax together?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    5. You do not like to tell your spouse about your business affairs?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    6. If you are in trouble, does your loved one become especially sensitive and affectionate towards you?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    7. Have you ever heard a harsh word from your spouse?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    8. Do you enjoy taking care of your husband?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    9. Do you think love dies with age?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    10. Does your spouse always treat you with affection?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    11. Are your fights usually short-lived and do you make up quickly?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    12. Do you celebrate your wedding anniversary every year?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    13. Are you sure that your spouse will support you in difficult times?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    14. Do you like your husband's friends?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    15. Does your spouse not take your worries to heart?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    16. Do you prefer to meet friends and girlfriends without your husband?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    17. Does your lover not take you seriously as an employee?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    18. Do your assessments of mutual acquaintances match?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    19. Do you and your husband have common interests and hobbies?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    20. Because some of your habits do not like your husband, you will not change them?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    21. Do you think that your family has too many responsibilities and few rights?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    22. Did you not imagine that marriage would limit your freedom so much?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    23. Any concession to your husband leads to your submission and enslavement?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    24. Does it sometimes annoy you that you have to solve all family problems?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    25. Does the family take a lot of time and effort?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    26. Does sex make you reconcile quickly with your spouse?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    27. Do you think that your husband's bad mood is not only his problem?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    28. If something is not going well with you, do you try to hide it from your spouse?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    29. If family life does not add up, then you need to get a divorce immediately?

    Yes - 0 points
    no - 1 point.

    30. Does your husband understand you better than anyone in the world?

    Yes - 1 point
    no - 0 points.

    Test results:

    you typed from 25 to 30 points. You are lucky - you are happily married and your union is strong. You can only envy.

    you typed from 15 to 24 points. Your marriage is successful, happiness and harmony reign in your family. True, sometimes there are small quarrels, but they cannot overshadow your family life.

    you typed from 7 to 14 points. In your family, with external well-being, there is still internal tension. However, with your willingness to make mutual concessions, your feelings for each other may be revived.

    you typed less than b points. It's time to sound the alarm. Your feelings for each other have reached the "shutdown threshold". Only a miracle can save your family ship from disaster.

    Is there such a thing as the same human?

    And, if you're dating someone, how do you know it's him or her? Is this the person with whom you rarely quarrel? A person who has the same interests as you? A person whose personality test result perfectly complements your own results? Is this the person you see yourself growing old with? Or does this concept include everything that is listed above?

    I present to you the problem, which is that, if you think that there is ‘ the same one man, then also must exist and ‘ not the one human. Such a logical statement may seem harmless - some might even say that it is useful in the search phase. However, once you get married, like ‘ not the one the person ceases to exist.

    If you think otherwise, it can have a devastating effect on your marriage.

    If we marry with the thought that perhaps we have chosen wrong human being, it is unlikely that we will meet difficulties with the same hopeful frenzy as if we did it otherwise. If there is a possibility that we both get married not with that human being, then why sacrifice and strain in order to succeed? Why not file for divorce and start looking the same person (in the hope that he also did not make a mistake and did not marry some other person)?

    Thought about not the same» man flickers in the shadow of many broken marriages.

    romantic way

    Many of us have watched movies or television shows.

    Those romantic comedies featuring a man and a woman who are "supposed" to be together, but instead are "attached" to someone else? The same “true love” that fate destroyed.

    In the beginning, we often don't want them to meet - we value marriage too much to see it fall apart. But, as the film progresses, it shows a huge number of well-planned events and relationships in order to slowly and following a certain strategy win the location of our hearts. We find in our hearts the hope of destroying one relationship in order to make room for another. In just ninety minutes, we find ourselves moving from what is wrong to what is perhaps necessary. By the end, we feel like we're happy when the couple finally get together - infidelity, that's all.

    The whole genre is devoted to this idea - an idea that exists only when there is also the thought of " the same" and " not that» man.

    Mr and Mrs "The Wrong One"

    Just define for yourself: such a thing as " the same(or the same)" doesn't exist - unless you're already married. The person who is thereby, is the person you are married to. This is what marriage recognizes.

    Marriage is a conscious and declared readiness to devote oneself to a person who has flaws. You don't ignore their shortcomings, you dedicate yourself to these people in spite of their shortcomings. Marriage includes imperfections and commitment (Ephesians 5:25).

    And, when we dedicate ourselves, we must remember that we ourselves are " wrong» man (Romans 3:23)! This is what makes marriage so beautiful and glorious. One " not the one» a person devotes himself to another « not the same» to a person. What would be the triumph of dedication to someone if he has no flaws?

    “The same one” is the one you are married to

    So instead of looking for " the same”, look for a spouse who seems to be on the path of sanctification. Once you are married and have made a public promise before God and before mankind, congratulations! - You are married to thereby". If you are already married: Congratulations! Are you married to " thereby» man (Matthew 19:4-6).

    As you hit a bump along the way, remember that the best marriage in the world is still a marriage between two people who need redemption along with their relationship. And, thank God, Jesus came to restore us and give us a perfect relationship with Himself (Revelation 21:1-5).

    Author - Timothy Trudeau/ © 2017 Desiring God Foundation. Website: desiringGod.org
    Translation - Victoria Bilyauer for

    Is your union ideal, are you really happy in your marriage, to find out the answer to this difficult question, you can take a simple test for a happy marriage. Try to answer each of the proposed questions quickly enough and as honestly as possible. The main thing here is not to look for the correct answer, but write the first thing that comes to your mind. Try to take it lightly. After all, this is just a test, even for a happy marriage. Everything can be corrected, and correction begins precisely with the awareness of objective reality. At the same time, try really not to think too much - let your heart speak instead of your mind.

    Happy Marriage Test

    As soon as the lovers begin their life together:
    a) they understand each other less and less, the perception of the partner is dulled;
    b) passion passes, giving way to calmness and even indifference;
    c) their love flares up with renewed vigor.*

    Your life together:
    a) constantly makes you anxious;
    b) measured and unemotional;
    c) gives you joyful emotions and fills you with happiness.*

    Your relatives and friends:
    a) they say that your union is successful and strong; *
    b) do not express their opinion regarding your marriage;
    c) criticize your relationship with your partner.

    If you had a magic wand, then you:
    a) would fundamentally change the mindset of your partner:
    b) would slightly correct the character of the spouse;
    c) would leave everything in your husband as it is.*

    Your intimate life:
    a) bored you because of the monotony;
    b) remained the same as several years ago;
    c) became even brighter and more interesting.*

    Do you think that your peers have relationships with their husbands:
    a) much more harmonious and sincere than yours;
    b) about the same as yours;
    c) not as good as yours.*

    Living alone without a spouse is:
    a) too high a price for dubious freedom; *
    b) a completely natural phenomenon;
    c) of course, unpleasant, but it gives such a desired independence.

    If you were not there, then your husband:
    a) would not be as happy as with you; *
    b) would find another woman with whom life would be about the same as in marriage with you;
    c) would live a fuller and happier life.

    Most often people:
    a) tend to mentally idealize marriage, which is the reason for the subsequent disappointment in it;
    b) think very little about family life;
    c) they are initially cautious, but then they are convinced that life in marriage is much happier and better than being alone. *

    You are not visited by thoughts of parting with your spouse, because:
    a) your marriage brings happiness to both of you; *
    b) in principle, your life can be called normal (no worse than others).
    c) this will not happen anyway because of the children and common responsibilities.

    If you were to go back in time, would you:
    a) remarried to their current spouse;*
    b) perhaps they chose a completely different person as their husband;
    c) they preferred life outside of marriage, but would definitely not marry their spouse.

    When you think about the fact that out of all the women your husband preferred only you, you:
    a) feel real pride;*
    b) take it for granted;
    c) often feel irritated.

    Do you think that your husband:
    a) has practically no advantages, but he has a lot of disadvantages;
    b) a good person, even despite some shortcomings;
    c) almost perfect.*

    Your marriage is so harmonious thanks to:
    a) the identity of your spouse;*
    b) fortunate circumstances;
    c) only your ability to endure and forgive a lot.

    Having lived together for so many years:
    a) you feel that you love each other even more;*
    b) you have not cooled off towards each other at all;
    c) you have ceased to experience any positive emotions towards each other.

    Do you think that family life is:
    a) reveals creative abilities in a person; *
    b) goes in parallel with the self-realization of partners, without affecting it in any way;
    c) hinders the further creative development of the spouses, limiting their horizons.

    Your spouse's personality traits:
    a) so good that even your girlfriends envy you; *
    b) are no different from those of other men;
    c) disgusting, it is simply impossible to get along with him.

    Most often, you and your spouse:
    a) Stand up for each other
    b) support each other only when your intentions coincide;
    c) preoccupied exclusively with their own problems, paying little attention to the partner's affairs.

    Your husband:
    a) quite often commits unnecessary and rash acts;
    b) an ordinary man who behaves in the same way as other men.
    c) is incredibly creative, so he easily finds a way out of even the most difficult situations.*

    Do you think that family happiness:
    a) either there is or it is not - little depends on the partners here;
    b) if it depends on the actions and feelings of the spouses, then only to a very small extent;
    c) a variable value that depends directly on the behavior and efforts of both spouses. *

    When you legalize a relationship, your life:
    a) became more stable and measured; *
    b) remained the same;
    c) for some reason it only became more complicated.

    It seems to you that each of the partners in marriage:
    a) a priori deserves respect; *
    b) can count on respect only if he behaves in a certain way;
    c) every day and hour he is obliged to prove to his spouse that he is worthy of his respect.

    At home you:
    a) love to communicate with your husband, you enjoy his company, no matter what you do; *
    b) you practically do not pay attention to your spouse, you just live together;
    c) you can hardly endure the company of your husband, it tires and burdens you.

    If someone wants you to tell him about life with a spouse, then you:
    a) hardly remember at least one happy moment;
    b) tell about the most significant and memorable events: the first meeting, wedding, etc.;
    c) you will have something to remember, because there were so many joyful moments in your life together. *

    Happy Marriage Quiz: The Keys

    Now you should correctly calculate the points scored. If your choice coincided with the answers marked with asterisks, then give yourself 2 points. An intermediate option (1 point) is always the answer “b”. And for a complete mismatch, you get 0 points.

    Happy marriage test: interpretation

    From 29 points. You can not even doubt the strength of your family and the success of your marriage. Harmony and complete well-being reign in relationships. Relatives consider your marriage exemplary, they try to visit you more often, because the very atmosphere of the house attracts with warmth and goodwill. Apparently, both you and your spouse life together brings happiness. Even when faced with disagreements, you are willing to compromise and try to support your partner.
    Between 24 and 28 points. Your family life is quite successful. Although there is something to strive for. For example, sometimes you can be overly categorical and principled. Pay more attention to your spouse and his feelings. However, remember about yourself: talk with your partner about your feelings, trust him with your emotions, show that you also need his support.
    Up to 24 points. The “weather” in your family leaves much to be desired. Home routine so captured you that you completely stopped devoting time to your spouse, paying attention to him and your relationship with him. Perhaps right now the time has come to change something, to make family life more intense and vibrant (move away from your parents, have a long vacation together, think about a child, etc.).

    Not only women wonder if they are happy in marriage, this question directly affects men as well. For most men, this question is very acute, and the answer to it is very difficult to find. First of all, it is necessary to highlight all the priorities of marriage, whether the young man married of his own free will, or at the insistence of his parents. Were these mutual feelings, or the wedding took place for a forced reason, for example, pregnancy. Be that as it may, any man is worthy of happiness, love and understanding.

    In most cases, women are deeply mistaken, assuming that men are strong personalities and that they are there to some kind of happiness, there are many worries in their life without it. But in fact, this is really a delusion, since a man, just like a child, simply needs female attention and affection, and by and large this is their happiness. Much depends on the behavior and staging of the woman in the house, if a man listens to a sea of ​​​​reproaches every day, and every day he meets with the displeased face of his wife, then the marriage is definitely doomed. No man will like this image, as he hurries home every day, hoping to meet the kindness, warm and affectionate look of his woman.

    Children are also an important factor, any, even the most gloomy man, will be uncontrollably happy with the sonorous children's laughter. He will admiringly look at his child and at the same time be sure that it is in this little miracle that his happiness lies.

    It is impossible to miss the moment of comfort in the house. Who creates this comfort? Without a doubt, of course, the wife. Always neat, tidy, looks great, the house is clean and tidy, everything is always in its place. A man does not have to collect his socks in the corners in the morning, or even worse, in the morning, in the closet, he does not find an ironed shirt and trousers. Believe me, men run away from such women, headlong and certainly do not return.

    Dear men, let's talk about the good, let's drop all everyday and unpleasant questions and try to find out if we are happy in our marriage. Oddly enough, but an online test can help you with this, which will definitely answer this question.

    In the test, you will have a unique opportunity to reveal your soul, answer honestly all the questions asked and, in the end, get a guaranteed result. As a result of the result obtained, it is necessary to analyze well, think through all the subtleties and only then take up the decision.

    In fact, everything is not as bad and gloomy as it might seem to you, but to fix something and save the family, no doubt in your power. It all depends, first of all, on your desire and feelings that you have for your soulmate. If your woman is really dear to you and loved by you, then everything will be fine, and the minor hardships that occur in every family will be resolved by themselves.

    Be happy and take care of your loved ones and loved ones.



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